had a phone call from the narcs husband telling me to stay away from her, ive split their marriage up and she has to choose either me or him haha, totally taken back with this call i couldnt believe it shes obviously been telling loads of lies about me to hide her own lies, feel like im going insane. I no i need to cut all ties with her coz things will only get worse its just so hard as ive left everyone for her HELP...