had a phone call from the narcs husband telling me to stay away from her, ive split their marriage up and she has to choose either me or him haha, totally taken back with this call i couldnt believe it shes obviously been telling loads of lies about me to hide her own lies, feel like im going insane. I no i need to cut all ties with her coz things will only get worse its just so hard as ive left everyone for her HELP...

easter bank holiday monday 6th april......
went to gullivers world with the narc today with all our kiddies over all it was a great day kids had a fantastic time and it was nice to just be out. The narcs children however didnt look happy all day the eldest couldnt join in was too self concious to get her picture taken (obviously because of her narcissist mother) she just stayed on her own most of the day while the kids were having fun on the rides, her children hadnt had their breakfast before going out for the day and they were all dressed like little scruffs ;( the narc however was dressed lovely as always and is paying over 300 to get her lips plumped and hair extensions done for a weekend away.) Obviously wants to impress the fellas an be the centre of attention as always even though its my daughters 18th birthday. ITS NOT HAPPENING BITCH. The whole day she spoke about me me me me me fkn me i couldnt even listen to her im seeing her in a completely new light now i no what she is its weird very hard to explain unless youve been in my situation. My poor daughter got left with the boring earache instead, the narc werent very happy with me because i werent listening to her and kept changing the subject away from her or walking away (same things she does constantly to everyone) she couldnt even look at me when she was talking 1 nil to me haha. Its been turned into one big game now which is also hard to explain but im sure the people who have been in my situation no exactly what im on about an can relate in a huge way. These little blogs help me relieve the stress an make me feel so much better. until tomorrow when we meet up again, i shall keep u posted :)

phone call from the narcissist feeling confused...

well today i got an inbox from my narcissistic friend asking me to ring her to which i did, the conversation starts about our holiday goin to get our vest tops made an when, shes bein nice today no being funny or off with me and im smiling on the phone talking to her, this is the friend i remember! maybe im wrong about my thoughts...how am i going to cope not having her in my life...aww feel sorry for her..... these are my thoughts while we on the phone. Then the conversation changes to her relationship problems, ive got this to get and that to get for my sons holiday an he wont give me no money (her husband) so wanted and was so tempted to ring his real dad and ask for money (real dad she stopped from seeing the kids because he wouldnt have her back) SELFISH BITCH. My thoughts begin to change again shes no different than what she was yesterday why am i falling for her sweetness again its all lies and false. She said everyone has started to hate her as her husband is telling everone lies about her (her husband is telling every body the truth about what shes like and shes shitting herself coz shes scared of the truth. She doesnt want anybody knowing what she is really like). Obviously why shes bein nice to me haha well lisa davison u can pissoff coz im not falling for it anymore i need my life back, i need me back. My head hurts got so much going on in there, im confused, im hurt, im angry. Feel so sorry for anyone putting up with a narc, if anyone has any information on this on how to deal with it please please please get in touch im going out of my mind

Hi my names mandy im 33 years old from liverpool england. Id like to share my experience with a narcassist friend who ive known for 7 years. Its only recently ive found out what she is (the devil in disguise). Ive always known there was something wrong from her actions, lies, back stabbing, promiscuity and obsession with herself, she always has to be the centre of attention regardless of who its from positive or negative it does'nt matter because she was in the lime light. Men is all she was interested in and she'd sleep with any one who showed her attention, im not the type of person to agree with things if i dont think its right so on occasions i did put her straight and she didnt like it, just changed the subject back to her as she obviously doesnt want to hear she is in the wrong coz shes perfect she cant do no wrong in her eyes (as the devil). She has me on the phone for hours me me me me me blardy blardy blar all i can hear from her gob is im a selfish bitch blar blar. Shes taken everythin from me without me realising it, ive lost all my friends coz i werent allowed other friends why would i need them when i had her (is what she told me) i was scared to upset her as i didnt want to lose her friendship (which never ever existed) i though she was the be all and end all she was all i needed, i was happy when i was with her it got to the point the only time i went out was with her so i felt as though i had to keep pleasing her beacsue if i upset her and lost her friendship who would i go out with? I didnt realise this was her plan in the first place. Before i met her i had confidence not a lot but a bit i went out didnt care about me weight or what i looked like and now i wont go out i do my shopping online my curtains dont get opened and im on anti depressants and attended cognitive therapy none of which have worked to make me go out and do things.  I was happy and talkative and use to be the life and soul of the party but now i dont wanna go out talk to people not even on the phone, my curtains dont get opened, she has taken my identity away right from under my nose, how could i have been so stupid? why didnt i do my research sooner? i could kick myself, NOT ONLY HAVE I SUFFERED BUT MY CHILDREN HAVE TOO. She is perfect to everyone on social media everyone loves her for her lies and false charm, she can be nice face to face to anyone wont let no one see the real her and after speaking to someone be inboxing talking about that very same person shes just been lovely too. She plays people against each other so they fall out and fight when shes the problem shes the one who is doing and saying nasty things but through the people (friends, family ) she has chosen, she never wants anyone to think she is bitchy or false. She comes across as tho shes got loads of money has the perfect life buying nice things all for herself of course her kids dont get nothing and when they do which is not very often its all over social media so she looks like the good parent shes not. She then goes on her daughters facebook and rights a status about how amazing her mum is taggin herself init and to on lookers they think awww isnt she a lovely mum, windes me up makes me sick but im the just the jealous ex friend gggrrr so frustrating. She has everybody doing things for her, her poor mum works full time even nights and she will get her up from bed to do the shopping or to take the kids to school or to cook the dinner she doesnt and cant do anything herself. Shes horrible to her kids their walking round in clothes that i wouldnt put on mine for bed, while shes walking round in named classy stuff but agian all this is for her self obsessed image infront of other people as we all no all she cares about is herself. She name calls her children, she puts them down, calls them names to make them self conscious of themselves (fat cunt, big eared cunt, ugly rat) shes horrible the list is endless shes a bully but only to people who she nos wont stand up to her. She can never ever be alone how would she cope who would do this who would that who would pay her attention which is the only thing that makes her happy. In her relationship she cheats on partners to the point of being a dirty whore, shes had them in toilets, entries, cheap hotels, her boyfriends bed sometimes more than one each night and this is while her kids are there too. How can people who live with her an who have known her for longer than not have seen what she is? it makes me look like a crank like im going insane and to be honest i feel it some times and question my own sanity. and not having people believe you makes it even worse. She tries to make people jealous with other people by ignoring you and status to get you to react which i do coz she gets on my nerves coz i no the game shes playing, her life is one big game. These people have no feelings they dont care if your hurting or if theyve upset you all they care about is themselves. I feel much better the last few days just for knowing the truth coz now i no she was never my friend so i have lost nothing and her new victims are gonna go through the same things i have just like the people before me, she only has one victim at a time until they do or say something she doesnt like and then she,ll find another. Its hard to put everything in writing and to fully understand it unless you have lived it. I so badly want revenge i cant let her get away with what she has put me through all these years, her poor kids are still going through it shes violent to them aswell i dont no what to do, should i report her? even tho shes horrible to her kids they wont say a bad word to anyone about her so sad. Im goin to game play coz i havent totally forgotten her yet as we have a holiday booked in 3 weeks time after that i am gonna make sure everyone knows what she is i just hope i dont look like the one who needs psychiatric help :) please reply to me if youve gone through similar experiences it would be nice to hear other stories thanks mandy xx
my email address mandywhite08@hotmail.com